Dr. Ritu Koul
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In today’s dating world, you match with someone on an online dating platform, and things start to escalate. For many people, casual sex has become a way to explore their sexuality, build an emotional connection, or experience pleasure in ways that feel right without attaching to long-term experience.
Having casual sex is a choice, and one doesn’t need to feel bad or guilty for expressing their sexual desires or needs. There is no single right way to explore one’s curiosity or sexuality.
This article talks about safe sex practices in a clear and non-judgmental way, which helps an individual to make the right and informed choice.
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What Does It Mean To Have Casual Sex?
Casual sex is defined by sexual involvement without the expectation of a future romantic relationship.
Types Of Casual Sex Encounters
Let’s understand the diversity of casual sex encounters, which can help one identify what caters to their needs and expectations.
Hook-ups/ Travel hook-up or one-night stand: It’s a type of casual sex where people don’t plan to meet again. These are one-time encounters, often short-term, with strangers and acquaintances.
Casual FWB: Friend with benefits. It involves people who are already friends and engage in sexual activity repeatedly. They connect/bond sexually but aren’t in a romantic relationship.
Online dating app encounter: Here, one meets the person through an online dating app. It can be a one-time thing or turn into multiple meetings.
Self-discovery sex: Meant for individuals who want to explore and understand their sexuality, identity, or preferences.
How To Practice Safe Sex?
Protecting the body is as essential as preserving the mind. Ignoring the basics can lead to regretting the decisions later. Here is the list of options one can look at:
1. Condoms:
They are the most easily available option. Condoms are 97% effective with correct and consistent use and 86% with typical use [2].
They are the most effective method of preventing most sexually transmitted diseases or infections (STDs or STIs) and avoiding unwanted pregnancy.
2.Vaccines:
Get vaccinated against viral infections like Hepatitis A and Hepatitis B, which can be passed on during sexual activity.
Human papillomavirus (HPV) is the most common STI.[3] People who are sexually active can get HPV.
In most cases (9 out of 10), HPV goes away within 2 years without causing any health problems. [4] Consider seeking medical advice from a healthcare professional if you notice a rash, blister, or unusual growth in your genital area. It is important for your sexual health.
3. Dams:
These are flat sheets used to cover the vaginal or anal opening and are preferred for oral sex.
4. Lubes:
These are gels that have a slightly thick texture. They make things easy to slide into and can make the experience comfortable and smooth.
If you are worried about getting pregnant accidentally, keep an emergency or birth control pill as a backup option.
“Safe casual sex is a mix of fun and responsibility. When both partners communicate honestly and use the proper protection, it can be a safe and enjoyable experience.
Clear And Honest Communication Is Essential
It is difficult and awkward to talk about pleasure. Communicating desires, boundaries, and expectations honestly can make way for a positive and comfortable experience.
This is how one can achieve it:
Use a joke or an emoji to initiate a conversation and avoid being awkward. Ask about their likes, dislikes or check for any mutual tastes or interests. It makes the conversation interesting.
Talk about desires, wants, and expectations once the comfort and casual affection is developed, and listen to theirs with no judgment.
Talk about permission. Consent is the starting point of any sexual activity. One must talk about their limits firmly. Always remember that one can change their mind any time before or during the act.
Both individuals should talk about their safety and preferred choice of protection. Ask about any past sexual encounters and STI history. One should mention their STI status and enquire about theirs by asking, “Did you get your STI check-up recently?”
Acknowledge and appreciate their honesty. Respect “no” as an answer. At the same time, if something is not working, don’t feel bad or guilty for saying “no”.
Aparna, a 25-year-old female, who recently met a guy through an online dating app, says, “listening to your gut feeling is important than listening to your hormones. Mention your boundaries early and directly. If the person complains or compromises the safety in any manner, stop the ongoing conversation/act. Open communication is key.”
Advice On Personal Safety
Things to consider before meeting the individual.
One should meet their partner in a trusting environment, such as a cafe or a station.
Inform a trusted friend about this meeting and let them know when and where it will be. Share your location with them. One should choose one’s own way of getting there.
Be aware of social media privacy, do not share explicit/nude pics through any social media platform until or unless it’s consensual and feels safe.
Intuition or gut feelings matter. Pay special attention to their facial expressions and body language. These clues can tell you how they feel and can make the experience more enjoyable.
Is Having Casual Sex Beneficial For Mental Health
Research highlights both the advantages and disadvantages of casual sex.
Advantages:
Sexual pleasure is the most common benefit. [5]
Happiness, fun, enjoyment, and increased self-confidence are some of the emotional benefits.
One can meet their sexual and/or emotional needs without having to make a long-term commitment. Easier to try out different types of intimacy.
Individual gets a chance to understand what they want in a relationship and how they want to act sexually.
Having casual sex is a choice, and one doesn’t need to feel bad or guilty for expressing their sexual desires or needs. There is no single right way to explore one’s curiosity or sexuality.
This article talks about safe sex practices in a clear and non-judgmental way, which helps an individual to make the right and informed choice.
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What Does It Mean To Have Casual Sex?
Casual sex is defined by sexual involvement without the expectation of a future romantic relationship.
Types Of Casual Sex Encounters
Let’s understand the diversity of casual sex encounters, which can help one identify what caters to their needs and expectations.
Hook-ups/ Travel hook-up or one-night stand: It’s a type of casual sex where people don’t plan to meet again. These are one-time encounters, often short-term, with strangers and acquaintances.
Casual FWB: Friend with benefits. It involves people who are already friends and engage in sexual activity repeatedly. They connect/bond sexually but aren’t in a romantic relationship.
Online dating app encounter: Here, one meets the person through an online dating app. It can be a one-time thing or turn into multiple meetings.
Self-discovery sex: Meant for individuals who want to explore and understand their sexuality, identity, or preferences.
How To Practice Safe Sex?
Protecting the body is as essential as preserving the mind. Ignoring the basics can lead to regretting the decisions later. Here is the list of options one can look at:
1. Condoms:
They are the most easily available option. Condoms are 97% effective with correct and consistent use and 86% with typical use [2].
They are the most effective method of preventing most sexually transmitted diseases or infections (STDs or STIs) and avoiding unwanted pregnancy.
2.Vaccines:
Get vaccinated against viral infections like Hepatitis A and Hepatitis B, which can be passed on during sexual activity.
Human papillomavirus (HPV) is the most common STI.[3] People who are sexually active can get HPV.
In most cases (9 out of 10), HPV goes away within 2 years without causing any health problems. [4] Consider seeking medical advice from a healthcare professional if you notice a rash, blister, or unusual growth in your genital area. It is important for your sexual health.
3. Dams:
These are flat sheets used to cover the vaginal or anal opening and are preferred for oral sex.
4. Lubes:
These are gels that have a slightly thick texture. They make things easy to slide into and can make the experience comfortable and smooth.
If you are worried about getting pregnant accidentally, keep an emergency or birth control pill as a backup option.
“Safe casual sex is a mix of fun and responsibility. When both partners communicate honestly and use the proper protection, it can be a safe and enjoyable experience.
Clear And Honest Communication Is Essential
It is difficult and awkward to talk about pleasure. Communicating desires, boundaries, and expectations honestly can make way for a positive and comfortable experience.
This is how one can achieve it:
Use a joke or an emoji to initiate a conversation and avoid being awkward. Ask about their likes, dislikes or check for any mutual tastes or interests. It makes the conversation interesting.
Talk about desires, wants, and expectations once the comfort and casual affection is developed, and listen to theirs with no judgment.
Talk about permission. Consent is the starting point of any sexual activity. One must talk about their limits firmly. Always remember that one can change their mind any time before or during the act.
Both individuals should talk about their safety and preferred choice of protection. Ask about any past sexual encounters and STI history. One should mention their STI status and enquire about theirs by asking, “Did you get your STI check-up recently?”
Acknowledge and appreciate their honesty. Respect “no” as an answer. At the same time, if something is not working, don’t feel bad or guilty for saying “no”.
Aparna, a 25-year-old female, who recently met a guy through an online dating app, says, “listening to your gut feeling is important than listening to your hormones. Mention your boundaries early and directly. If the person complains or compromises the safety in any manner, stop the ongoing conversation/act. Open communication is key.”
Advice On Personal Safety
Things to consider before meeting the individual.
One should meet their partner in a trusting environment, such as a cafe or a station.
Inform a trusted friend about this meeting and let them know when and where it will be. Share your location with them. One should choose one’s own way of getting there.
Be aware of social media privacy, do not share explicit/nude pics through any social media platform until or unless it’s consensual and feels safe.
Intuition or gut feelings matter. Pay special attention to their facial expressions and body language. These clues can tell you how they feel and can make the experience more enjoyable.
Is Having Casual Sex Beneficial For Mental Health
Research highlights both the advantages and disadvantages of casual sex.
Advantages:
Sexual pleasure is the most common benefit. [5]
Happiness, fun, enjoyment, and increased self-confidence are some of the emotional benefits.
One can meet their sexual and/or emotional needs without having to make a long-term commitment. Easier to try out different types of intimacy.
Individual gets a chance to understand what they want in a relationship and how they want to act sexually.